“i get handsome when i wear a beret. i get even more handsome when i wear sunglasses. the more my face is not visible, the more handsome i am "
if you are not sure, you are not handsome.
i think it doesn't matter. the only question to ask is: if i had a daughter, would i want her to marry a man like me? if the answer is yes, you're handsome.
it seems to go away when i take off the glasses. (see: myopia + astigmatism)
the dilemma that only someone who is not handsome will fall into.