"the cold also has its own charm. you like ice cream, don't you?" said bazarov, that is, turgenev (see: fathers and sons) too...
it may seem repulsive at first glance, but for example, a woman who is not as cold as angela in the office series and who approaches her with understanding is of course attractive.
(see: are you hitchcock?)
people also think that these women are cold towards everyone. no sir, they treat the man they love warmly.
it's because he's wildly curious about what his hot self is like.
(see: oh my god to norway)
it offers a "challenge" because what is easily achieved is invaluable.